The Empress of Ice Cream (icecreamempress) wrote,
The Empress of Ice Cream

National Coming Out Day

So I can't decide what to say, because, yeah, I'm bisexual, but as it happened I married a man a bazillion years ago and we chose to be monogamous, and so my current relationship is unfairly privileged by homophobic asshats and that's shitty. And can't decide whether "I haven't been queerbashed in more than a decade so I should just shut up" or "Shutting up contributes to bi invisibility."

But I do want to say to everyone who feels or knows that it would be unsafe for them to come out: you are fighting homophobia every day just by existing and staying safe, and you don't owe the rest of us anything more than that.
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